Title: The Long-Term Effects of Cyberbullying: What You Need to Know
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Cyberbullying can leave more than emotional bruises—it can cause long-term issues like depression, addiction, and chronic loneliness. Learn the lasting effects and how to get support.
What Is Cyberbullying?
Cyberbullying happens when someone uses digital platforms—like social media, texting, or gaming—to harass, threaten, embarrass, or target another person. Unlike traditional bullying, it can occur 24/7 and follow someone home. While often seen as “just words,” cyberbullying can cause deep and long-lasting emotional, psychological, and physical harm (Kowalski et al., 2014).
1. Chronic Mental Health Challenges
Cyberbullying increases the risk of long-term emotional problems like anxiety, depression, and even post-traumatic stress. Victims may experience suicidal thoughts, emotional dysregulation, or panic attacks. A longitudinal study found that youth exposed to cyberbullying were significantly more likely to develop depression and psychological distress well into adulthood (Sourander et al., 2010).
2. Addiction and Risky Coping
To numb the emotional pain, some individuals turn to substances or compulsive behaviors like social media, online shopping, or video gaming. Research has shown a link between cyberbullying victimization and increased substance use, especially among adolescents (Bannink et al., 2014). Without intervention, these behaviors may evolve into long-term dependence.
3. Low Self-Esteem and Identity Struggles
Cyberbullying attacks often focus on a person’s looks, identity, or social status. Over time, repeated bullying can erode self-worth, leading to persistent shame and insecurity (Patchin & Hinduja, 2010). Victims may develop perfectionism, people-pleasing tendencies, or chronic self-doubt—patterns that interfere with personal growth and confidence.
4. Loneliness: A Hidden but Harmful Effect
One of the most overlooked effects of cyberbullying is chronic loneliness. Many victims withdraw from peers to avoid further pain or humiliation. This self-isolation can become a long-term pattern that damages emotional health.
The Real Cost of Loneliness
According to research by Holt-Lunstad et al. (2015), loneliness can be as damaging to health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. It is linked to:
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Depression and anxiety
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Substance abuse
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Sleep disturbances
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Increased inflammation and higher risk of chronic illness
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Premature mortality
For teens especially, loneliness affects brain development, identity formation, and trust in others. Victims may appear “fine” online while suffering deeply in silence.
5. Relationship and Trust Issues
Cyberbullying can make it difficult to trust others or feel safe in relationships. Many victims struggle to form close friendships or intimate partnerships later in life. Studies suggest that past experiences of bullying can negatively affect adult attachment and relationship quality (Wolke & Lereya, 2015).
6. Academic and Career Challenges
Cyberbullying affects attention, memory, and motivation—making it harder for students to focus or engage in learning. Victims may skip school, fall behind academically, or even drop out. These issues can carry into adulthood, reducing long-term educational and career opportunities (Beran & Li, 2007).
7. Physical Health Consequences
The stress of bullying doesn’t just stay in the mind—it impacts the body. Chronic stress caused by cyberbullying can trigger a range of physical symptoms:
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Headaches and stomachaches
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Fatigue and muscle tension
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Sleep problems
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Eating disturbances
Stress hormones like cortisol can remain elevated for long periods, weakening the immune system and contributing to inflammation-related diseases (Danese & McEwen, 2012).
Healing Is Possible
While the effects of cyberbullying are serious, recovery is absolutely possible. Early support and skill-building therapy can help people rebuild confidence, regulate emotions, and re-establish safe connections.
Programs like Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) teach emotion regulation, mindfulness, and distress tolerance—giving teens and adults the tools they need to move forward. Group therapy and IOPs (Intensive Outpatient Programs) can also provide validation, community, and hope.
Final Thoughts
Cyberbullying can leave scars that last for years—but those scars don’t have to define your life. From emotional pain to social isolation, the long-term effects are real and often invisible. Chronic loneliness, in particular, can quietly erode your health and happiness.
But healing is possible. With the right support, people can learn to trust again, cope in healthier ways, and rebuild a life that feels meaningful and safe.
Need Support in Houston?
At the DBT Center of Houston, we help teens and adults recover from cyberbullying, anxiety, depression, and trauma. Our DBT-based programs are designed to give clients the tools to heal and thrive. Learn more or contact us today.
References
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Bannink, R., Broeren, S., van de Looij-Jansen, P. M., de Waart, F. G., & Raat, H. (2014). Cyber and traditional bullying victimization as a risk factor for mental health problems and suicidal ideation in adolescents. PLoS ONE, 9(4), e94026.
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Beran, T., & Li, Q. (2007). The relationship between cyberbullying and school bullying. Journal of Student Wellbeing, 1(2), 15–33.
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Danese, A., & McEwen, B. S. (2012). Adverse childhood experiences, allostasis, allostatic load, and age-related disease. Physiology & Behavior, 106(1), 29–39.
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Holt-Lunstad, J., Smith, T. B., Baker, M., Harris, T., & Stephenson, D. (2015). Loneliness and social isolation as risk factors for mortality: A meta-analytic review. Perspectives on Psychological Science, 10(2), 227–237.
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Kowalski, R. M., Giumetti, G. W., Schroeder, A. N., & Lattanner, M. R. (2014). Bullying in the digital age: A critical review and meta-analysis of cyberbullying research among youth. Psychological Bulletin, 140(4), 1073–1137.
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Patchin, J. W., & Hinduja, S. (2010). Cyberbullying and self-esteem. Journal of School Health, 80(12), 614–621.
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Sourander, A., Klomek, A. B., Ikonen, M., Lindroos, J., Luntamo, T., Koskelainen, M., … & Helenius, H. (2010). Psychosocial risk factors associated with cyberbullying among adolescents. Archives of General Psychiatry, 67(7), 720–728.
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Wolke, D., & Lereya, S. T. (2015). Long-term effects of bullying. Archives of Disease in Childhood, 100(9), 879–885.