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Stephanie Carrera
Office Manager
I’m happy to welcome you to the DBT Center. Keeping administrative needs flowing smoothly is an important part of providing effective services and my goal is to help make that happen for everyone. I have experience in billing for over twenty years and medical office management for over seven years. I have four children; three youngest are in college and one grandson.I love spending time with my grandson and taking time to bring my Siberian and Alaskan Huskies to the dog park.
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LOCATION
DBT Center: 1348 Heights Blvd, Houston, TX. 77008
Telehealth: All of Texas
Trauma can be invasive, impacting your interactions with those you love and interact with. The lingering effects of childhood abuse, the aftermath of a natural disaster, or the scars left by an abusive relationship, trauma can leave lasting imprints that affect how we relate to others. Trauma shapes our reactions and we can often be confused about why we are responding the way we are.
The Impact of Trauma
1. Trust Issues: One of the most common effects of trauma is difficulty trusting others. Whether due to betrayal in past relationships or a sense of vulnerability from past experiences, trauma survivors may struggle to believe in the intentions of others. This can lead to hesitancy in forming new relationships or maintaining existing ones. You may find yourself suspicious of even those closest to you and doubting their loyalty and caring for you.
2. Communication Challenges: Trauma survivors may find it hard to express their emotions or needs clearly, or they may misinterpret the intentions of others. Sometimes they may not be able to identify what they are feeling or needing and push away out of fear when actually they need support.
3. Emotional Regulation: Managing emotions can be particularly challenging for trauma survivors. Intense emotions such as fear, anger, or sadness may surface unexpectedly, leading to conflicts or emotional distancing in relationships. Learning to regulate emotions is key to navigating these challenges.
4. Impact on Intimacy: Some survivors may avoid closeness altogether, fearing vulnerability or repeating past negative experiences. They may be so fearful of betrayal or rejection that they cannot allow closeness. Others may struggle with boundaries or experience difficulties in feeling safe and secure in intimate relationships.
Healing and Growth in Relationships
While trauma can pose significant challenges to relationships, it's important to recognize that healing and growth are possible:
1. Seeking Support: One of the most common effects of trauma is difficulty trusting others. Whether due to betrayal in past relationships or a sense of vulnerability from past experiences, trauma survivors may struggle to believe in the intentions of others. This can lead to hesitancy in forming new relationships or maintaining existing ones. You may find yourself suspicious of even those closest to you and doubting their loyalty and caring for you.
2. Communication Challenges: Trauma survivors may find it hard to express their emotions or needs clearly, or they may misinterpret the intentions of others. Sometimes they may not be able to identify what they are feeling or needing and push away out of fear when actually they need support.
3. Emotional Regulation: Managing emotions can be particularly challenging for trauma survivors. Intense emotions such as fear, anger, or sadness may surface unexpectedly, leading to conflicts or emotional distancing in relationships. Learning to regulate emotions is key to navigating these challenges.
4. Impact on Intimacy: Some survivors may avoid closeness altogether, fearing vulnerability or repeating past negative experiences. They may be so fearful of betrayal or rejection that they cannot allow closeness. Others may struggle with boundaries or experience difficulties in feeling safe and secure in intimate relationships.
Are you ready to start your recovery? We are ready to help, to walk the steps with you.
Call us at 713-973-2800 or fill out the contact form on our website (www.houstondbtcenter.com). Schedule a free 15-minute consult on our website or ask us to call you. Let’s talk soon.